Do you think arguments are always the cause of ruining of relationships?

Sanjeev · Oct 24, 2025

Yes, in most of the cases the arguments are always the cause of the ruining of the relationship. I have noticed when people start arguing, they start talking less to each other, and when we start talking less, the attachment starts getting weaker with time.

But sometimes arguments lead to making relationships better because we get to know about each other, and we try to improve ourselves and apparently try to improve the relationship.

What about you? What do you think?

Ginger · Oct 24, 2025

Arguments are but there are other things that can ruin a relationship and that includes our own perceptions and even narrow mindedness and we should not trust anyone blindly because many times it's the reason of argument

Sanjeev · Oct 24, 2025

@Ginger Yes, there are other things too that cause broken relationships, but I feel argument is the initial phase, and people should be alert if it happens so frequently and must find out the reason why it's happening.

Kennysplash · Oct 26, 2025

I think arguments aren't the problem, it's when we stop making an effort to understand each other's perspectives and find mutually beneficial solutions that relationships start to go wrong. I've learned that relationships are all about compromise, empathy, and communication. When we try to approach conflicts with an open mind and a willingness to listen, we can often find creative solutions that work for everyone. So It's not about winning an argument, but about strengthening our connection and growing together.

RainbowSunshine · Nov 4, 2025

I don’t think arguments alone ruin relationships. It’s how people argue that matters. Constructive arguments can bring clarity and understanding, while toxic arguments breed distance. A relationship falls apart more from poor communication and lack of respect than from disagreements themselves.

arunima25 · Nov 4, 2025

On the contrary, I have seen many relationships getting ruined due to absence of arguments. I always see arguments as a saviour. I feel that arguments in a relationship shows that the communication is still there. But yes, with arguments, I mean healthy arguments and not the toxic ones where you are not trying to put your points but rather to humiliate or blame other one. If there is relationship surviving without argument or differences, I feel for the one person who is suppressed and feeling suffocated. Arguments and differences show that it is a mutual relationship. But yes, it should be a healthy one.

uptrendfinancialsignal · Nov 5, 2025

Not always so. It depends on how you argue. If it’s just shouting and passing insults, then yes, it might ruin the relationship . But if both people are mature and listen, arguments can actually make you understand each other better. I’ve had small quarrels with friends that ended up making us closer. The key thing is respect and once you cross that line, everything can get worse.

arunima25 · Nov 5, 2025

@Sanjeev . You have said it right that sometimes arguments make the relationships better. If done in a constructive way with space and respect there, it can lead to unfolding of so many beautiful things in relationship and make it better. Many a times, many things stay suppressed for years and cause a bigger harm than an argument would do. Sweeping under the carpet is not the way. The problems are still there.

Teegold · Nov 5, 2025

Arguments will always arise in any relationship. What matters most is how the parties handle the argument. If they resolve their issues as mature adults, it won't deal a blow to the relationship. But if they start to harbor malice, then the relationship is long gone bruhh.

Sanjeev · Nov 5, 2025

That's true; if the argument gets to an extent that it hurts a person, then it may ruin a relationship, but sometimes a person is mature enough and apologizes for it, and then it may not ruin the relationship.

Starmix · Nov 6, 2025

It is essential to choose the right person to be with in a relationship; don't choose a toxic one that could be the source of constant arguments. You might have different personas and principles. And for sure, 100%, always arguing can ruin a relationship.

Sanjeev · Nov 6, 2025

Absolutely, but sometimes the person is so dubious that you cannot judge that this person is toxic and when you get close to that person you come to know that you have been in a toxic relationship.

Kennysplash · Nov 6, 2025

Starmix said:
It is essential to choose the right person to be with in a relationship; don't choose a toxic one that could be the source of constant arguments. You might have different personas and principles. And for sure, 100%, always arguing can ruin a relationship.

There are some people that are very good when it comes to arguments, even something insignificant causes them to argue. These ones are also tough to reason with, they must always have things their own way. I run very far away from these ones as possible.

Starmix · Nov 7, 2025

Kennysplash said:
There are some people that are very good when it comes to arguments, even something insignificant causes them to argue. These ones are also tough to reason with, they must always have things their own way. I run very far away from these ones as possible.

There are people like that with hairy tongues and that is their talent hehe. I don't like to argue. It's stressful, I prefer to stay away to avoid conflicts. Those who like to argue aren't busy people, they have a provocative mood.

King Belieal · Wednesday at 12:50 PM

Arguments are bound to happen in every human relationship. In fact, I judge the strength of a relationship by the number of arguments that people have had and been able to resolve and come together again. Arguments are not the cause for relationships scattering. It is rather toxic arguments that can lead to a relationship breaking down completely. Toxic arguments is when the two people involved keep arguing about a particular thing with no adjustments from both ends. Resentment would set in at some point.

Starmix · 2025-11-20T05:49:51+0000

One cause of argument in a relationship is jealousy; another is a lack of communication. Jealousy kills, and the one hit by it won't stop accusing the person, thus the argument happens. Also, if you lack communication, that could build a gap between you and your partner. It is very important to communicate to know each other's feelings and problems.

eLdavis · 2025-11-20T06:37:09+0000

I personally don't think arguments is the cause, having arguments in a relationship is completely normal, what actually ruins a relationship is the inability to communicate when there is an argument.

Starmix · 2025-11-20T06:39:52+0000

eLdavis said:
I personally don't think arguments is the cause, having arguments in a relationship is completely normal, what actually ruins a relationship is the inability to communicate when there is an argument.

Correct, if one is hit, the other one must be cool to change the mood and manage the happy momentum of a relationship. Communication paves the gap and leads the two people arguing in peace and harmony.

arunima25 · 2025-11-20T06:58:38+0000

Arguments are a must in any relationship. It's a sign of healthy relationship where each stakeholder in the relationship has a say. A relationship without arguments needs introspection. It is only possible in a relationship where one person is thriving on dominance and other is on endurance. That's very unhealthy. Yes, it is important to keep the argument healthy and respectful.

eLdavis · 2025-11-20T08:22:43+0000

arunima25 said:
Arguments are a must in any relationship. It's a sign of healthy relationship where each stakeholder in the relationship has a say. A relationship without arguments needs introspection. It is only possible in a relationship where one person is thriving on dominance and other is on endurance. That's very unhealthy. Yes, it is important to keep the argument healthy and respectful.

Exactly, relationship is about two different persons coming together, different backgrounds, different understanding and so on, so there is bound to be arguments.

Do you think arguments are always the cause of ruining of relationships?

Sanjeev

Ginger

Sanjeev

Kennysplash

RainbowSunshine

arunima25

uptrendfinancialsignal

arunima25

Teegold

Sanjeev

Starmix

Sanjeev

Kennysplash

Starmix

King Belieal

Starmix

eLdavis

Starmix

arunima25

eLdavis

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