Do you easily forgive and forget?

Sanjeev · Oct 20, 2025

It's not easy to forgive people; I know how difficult it is. But in my case it depends on the severity of the mistakes they make. And I learn from their mistakes. Sometimes the people do a blunder, which is not easy to forgive. I feel it is better to ignore such people and never let them do any harm to you in the future.

I know you also may not find it easy to forgive people and forget their mistakes. How difficult is it for you to do this?

KrissyCakes09 · Oct 20, 2025

Nope I'm the kind of person who never forgets and if they did me wrong I have a hard time forgiving people.

flower · Oct 21, 2025

Honestly, I can forgive, but forgetting can't happen so easily . It depends on what the person did to me. If it pains me deeply, even if you move on, I'd still remember it. But I try not to hold grudges, it just adds to the stress we already had with life responsibilities.

uptrendfinancialsignal · Nov 7, 2025

Honestly, I try to forgive but to forget is a little hard

. I let go of the anger, but the memory I had will still stick somewhere in my head. I remember one friend that I borrowed my money and he ghosted me for months. I forgave him but anytime he mentions “bro, trust me,” I just laugh because I know he's the opposite. Forgiving someone doesn't mean you are stupid. I always pray for peace of mind and that is why I let go of grudges.

Sanjeev · Wednesday at 4:52 AM

I also don't consider forgiving someone to be your weakness, but people think it is. I also forgive people easily because I want peace of mind, and I don't want to indulge myself further in tension. I have lots of friends whom I forgave and tried to forget, but at some point in time or in some situation, the experience comes to mind.

Mike30 · Wednesday at 5:00 AM

Yes, I forgive... and many times I give second chances... I have made mistakes too(a lot of them), so why not?

Sometimes it takes me a little time, sometime takes me years... Each situation is different.

Sanjeev · Wednesday at 5:09 AM

@Mike30 Sometimes I judge people wrongly; every time we cannot be right. With time the severity of mistakes fades away, so it's become easy to forgive a person. But imagine even when you forgive a person, but he/she doesn't stop and repeats the same thing. What would you do?

Mike30 · Wednesday at 1:32 PM

Sanjeev said:
@Mike30 Sometimes I judge people wrongly; every time we cannot be right. With time the severity of mistakes fades away, so it's become easy to forgive a person. But imagine even when you forgive a person, but he/she doesn't stop and repeats the same thing. What would you do?

When that happen, I leave that job to God, he takes care of it. It's a sure thing...

Do you easily forgive and forget?

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