Parents must be the best friends of their children

Constant communication and togetherness make children get closer to their parents. It is nice to see kids being stingy and clingy to their parents, either to their mom or dad. It is crucial that if kids grow up lacking love and closeness from their parents, they will become hostile to themselves. They will think they are useless, not needed, and only become parents' burden. This case is one of the factors why some kids grow murderers. They hate their parents and even want to kill them, as we always read or hear news, especially in the USA, kids kill their parents, and parents kill their kids. It is so horrible act between kids and parents. The right values must be taught to kids while their minds are still blank.
 
You are right, parents needs to be able to create a bond with their children, being their friend can help create this bond.
Kids feel they are loved and cared for by their parents if they are always with them in times of their troubles and insecurities. They are also not awkward to confess to their parents about their troubles, especially about emotional ones. If the parents restrict them from getting closer or communicating most often, most likely, kids feel mentally tormented and emotionally shaken.
 
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