Is jealousy a sign of love or just simply insecurity

[eLdavis]

When it comes to the issue of jealousy, people often have different opinions about it. There are those who believe a person who is truly in love needs to show jealousy, while there are some who consider jealousy as a sign of insecurity. What's your take on this?

 

[Starmix]

Jealousy kills, it's a sudden impulse that can't be controlled by most people. I can't exactly tell if being jealous means love. It could be selfishness or insecurity.

 

[Bremaine]

I think it can be a sign of both. I think it's natural to have some jealousy, even when you're in a stable relationship. Sometimes people get worried about their partners friends.

I think it comes down to communication. Because often jealousy comes from not knowing, or being worried about what could be happening. It's like a paranoia. And I think if it goes unchecked, it can cause a problem in your relationships. Talk to your significant other about your feelings, if you're jealous, let them know. It becomes a problem when you're constantly jealous and question your partner. At that point, the relationship is likely over or seen its best days.

 

[Starmix]

Jealousy is not synonymous with love; therefore, those jealous types lack love. If you love someone, don't slander , be cautious and fair.

 

[Sanjeev]

I think it's not because of love but it is because of the insecurity. I have seen some people are jealous of the person whom they love talk to someone else. These people think that it will effect their love life but that's not the case because a person truly loves you, won't leave you at any cost.

 

[Kennysplash]

There has to be a balance to everything, so I will say it can actually be both. I would be worried if my partner is not jealous at all when she has reasons to be, it just shows that the feeling is not that strong for me.
I would also be worried if it is too much that everything becomes an issue.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

Interesting question. I think sometimes jealousy can mean caring, but often it’s because of insecurity.
If you trust someone and communicate openly, there is no need to be jealous. It's as simple as that .

 

[RainbowSunshine]

Jealousy can mean love, but not always the healthy kind. It’s that fear of losing someone mixed with wanting to be important to them. When you trust your partner, jealousy fades. When you don’t, it grows. So I’d say it starts from love but becomes insecurity if it’s not controlled. Love should build confidence, not suspicion.

 

[Kennysplash]

Interesting question. I think sometimes jealousy can mean caring, but often it’s because of insecurity.
If you trust someone and communicate openly, there is no need to be jealous. It's as simple as that .

There are some jealousy that really do not mean insecurity. It just means that you are have genuine feelings and you are afraid of losing the person. Like I said earlier, if you have a significant other and they show no sign of jealousy around you no matter how small, then you need to be wary.

 

[Olusmart]

I think jealousy is a sign of insecurity. It can ruin a relationship or cause harm. Love should be built on trust and mutual respect.

 

[KrissyCakes09]

I would say insecurity.